Monday, June 25, 2007

Self Examination

I learned something about myself this week-end of which I had never given much thought. I am an IDEALIST!

idealist
(n.)
One whose conduct is influenced by ideals that often conflict with practical considerations.


idealist

(n.)
One who is unrealistic and impractical; a visionary.


During a conversation with a few of my old classmates, discussing one of the top news topics, I expressed my opinion and was quickly told that I am an idealist.

Of course, I know the definition of "Idealist" but have never thought about the personality traits of an idealistic person.

I got home and started a little research about "just what kind of a person is an idealist".

This is what I found:

All Idealists share the following core characteristics:

Idealists are enthusiastic, they trust their intuition, yearn for romance, seek their true self, prize meaningful relationships, and dream of attaining wisdom.

Idealists pride themselves on being loving, kindhearted, and authentic.

Idealists tend to be giving, trusting, spiritual, and they are focused on personal journeys and human potentials.

Idealists make intense mates, nurturing parents, and inspirational leaders.

Idealists, as a temperament, are passionately concerned with personal growth and development.

Idealists strive to discover who they are and how they can become their best possible self--always this quest for self-knowledge and self-improvement drives their imagination. And they want to help others make the journey.

Idealists are naturally drawn to working with people, and whether in education or counseling, in social services or personnel work, in journalism or the ministry, they are gifted at helping others find their way in life, often inspiring them to grow as individuals and to fulfill their potentials.

Idealists are rare, making up no more than 8 to 10 percent of the population. But their ability to inspire people with their enthusiasm and their idealism has given them influence far beyond their numbers.
http://www.gamebanshee.com/forums/299219-post42.html

http://www.advisorteam.org/the_four-temperaments/temp_idealist.html

After reading about the personality traits of an Idealist, I didn't feel quite as bad about being tagged as one. I don't know whether the person that tagged me meant it to be as complimentary as this description but I'll take it anyway!

I can see that being an idealist could be dangerous in the realm of solving political and societal issues and thank goodness we're in the minority! I guess that idealism comes under the heading of "wearing rose-colored glasses". This is how God made me so I believe I'll just say "Thank You!"

More details on the 50th Year Reunion later.

9 comments:

Tammie said...

I think I resemble that remark...in that, I 'know' that I'm NOT a realist!

Mike Minzes said...

Nothing wrong with being an idealist!! It just means you a passionate about what you love.

Queen of the Mayhem said...

I think I may fall closer to realist or even part time pessimist....may need to work on that!

Anonymous said...

sometimes i think i am an idealist sometimes i am a realist. Human beings are very complicated, aren't we? We choose what to believe, what to persist, what to value.

crabby old man said...

I have never considered what you were. I just know we're friends. M

David said...

Hey, if we aren't trying to reach the ideal (living a Christ centered life) then we need to start trying! Idealists do something with there lives. Not a bad thing to be!

Deb said...

You always were the smart one in the family! Your writings are wonderful. I have been gone for so long that i never recognize anyone in the photos!!! I guess I am more of a realist---too much of one so I've been told!! Thanks for thinking that I'm a hero but the reality is, I'm just another survivor that puts one foot in front of the other and trys to get through another day. Keep up your beautiful writing--Love, Deb

Jackie said...

Deb,

I've been struggling to keep my 'inspiration'.

You've just renewed it.

I love you, my baby sister!

Terri@SteelMagnolia said...

Hey...
your hyperlink on RWA's comment box worked!

How did I miss this post.... mustuv been in Beaver