Dirty Laundry

Happy Mother's Day to Dirty Laundry is quite a paradox, I would say.

I'm breaking my own rule.

When I started blogging, I promised myself that I would post just the 'good stuff' about my hometown...nothing negative. If I couldn't be uplifting and inspiring, I didn't need to blog.

But the time has come when the truth needs to be faced and dealt with, if possible. The following is a letter I've written (and re-written and written again) to the editor of our paper.

This is the first time I've ever taken the initiative of airing my feelings through a Letter to the Editor. I don't expect much change through this one letter, but I'm hoping it will inspire others to make their dissatisfaction with the way things are progressing (or not progressing) more public.
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This is my Hometown and I love it.

This is my birthplace; where I spent my growing up years; where I graduated from high school; where I met my life partner and got married.

In 1957, upon my marriage, it was time to leave. My husband was in college and we had to begin our lives. Though we made many trips home through the years for visits with friends and family, December, 1957 was the last year that we could call this town our place of residence.

I never lost the tugging at my heart to come back home. We were gone for 45 years, and all the time I had plans 'on the back burner' to return.

And, it happened! Through many twists and turns, ups and downs in our lives, we made it back home. Of course, God was in control all the time. He chose my husband for me....another hometown guy who loved his home. Our move back home was an easy transition for the both of us. Imagine if I had married someone from another state, or even from a large city! I would have had to fight 'tooth and toenail' to make it back home, and still probably wouldn't have made it. This is one of those places from where you have to be a native of to love! (so an outsider would say)

I kept up with the changes while we were away; deaths, marriages, births, modernizing, renovations; all the physical changes that take place over the years. I was prepared for change in these areas.

For the first few years after our return, things were as wonderful as I had imagined. Businesses were still holding their own, people seemed energetic and interested, the city seemed to be functioning well, the Chamber of Commerce was active. The school appeared to be functioning well with few problems and happy kids. Churches were well attended and well served. (or at least my church was well attended)

Or.....maybe I was just blinded by the excitement of coming home.

All this has changed in recent years. What happened?

There are numerous civic and county organizations that are working to enhance, improve and grow our town and county....Keeping Munday Beautiful, County Vision group, Lions Club, Munday Chapter of T.E.E.A., Historical Commission., Meals on Wheels, Food Pantry.... just to name a few.

I've noticed that within the membership of these organizations, many of the members 'cross over' and serve in more than one, or several, organizations. I admire these people who are working for improvement and attempting to hold on to our heritage. But the memberships are small, funds are limited, and time is short. They can only do so much.

Churches are in abundance with adequate membership but with the same problems: low attendance, limited funds, and short time.

Why are there so few people who are interested in their town and county? I mentioned the changes that I was prepared to face. What I wasn't prepared for is the over-whelming shroud of apathy, complacency and negativity of otherwise 'good people'.

*What has happened in our school that is causing people to move (or want to move their child/children) to other school districts?

*What has happened to our Chamber of Commerce to be on the verge of closing?

*What has happened to our city leadership that is so disgruntling to people?

*What has caused the conflict and turmoil within our law enforcement department?

*Why have at least half dozen businesses closed in the past 4 or 5 years?

I have no specific answers to these questions. I just watch, listen, and draw my own conclusions.

We can sit here and complain about our national government not taking care of its people. But do we have the right to complain when we can't even take care of our town?

To help make my point, we had an election this past Saturday. Ninety-one (if I've counted correctly) voted in this election.

Ninety-one!!

Where were the registered voters?

A past President of the USA, John F. Kennedy, is often quoted:
"Ask not what your country can do for you. Ask what you can do for your country."

This can be applied to any station in life....whether it be a national position or one of hometown stature. It is my belief that a person who loves his home should ask "What can I do for my home?" NOT "What can my home do for me?"

Even with the tireless effort of a few, I see the possibility of us losing the battle of improvement and increasing our town. I see the possibility of us losing the battle of growing our churches by the disinterest of ministering to the unchurched.

I certainly don't want this to be a discouragement for those that are working so hard.....rather, an encouragement for those who might be 'waiting for someone else to do it'.

I want to encourage each and every citizen to get involved and begin working together for a better town...one that can be held up and displayed with respect.

Too old? Do what you can.
Too young? Do what you can.
Too busy? Do what you can
Don't feel like it? Do what you can.
Have too many other problems? Do what you can.

With everyone "doing what they can" our town can be revived again!

Citizenry of Munday, it's time to awaken. We've been asleep much too long...

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Readers, if you've fallen into the apathetic group, re-think and "do what you can".



Peace to your household....