Friday, March 05, 2010

Ice Cream

A meaningful story sent to me by my #1 fan, Crabby.

Have you had your ice cream today?

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One day I had lunch with some friends. Jim, a short, balding golfer type about 80 years old, came along with them---all in all, a pleasant bunch.

When the menus were presented, we ordered salads, sandwiches, and soups, except for Jim who said, "Ice Cream, please. Two scoops, chocolate.

I wasn't sure my ears heard right, and the others were aghast. "Along with heated apple pie," Jim added, completely unabashed.

We tried to act quite nonchalant, as if people did this all the time.. But when our orders were brought out, I didn't enjoy mine.

I couldn't take my eyes off Jim as his pie a-la-mode went down. The other guys couldn't believe it. They ate their lunches silently and grinned.

The next time I went out to eat, I called and invited Jim. I lunched on white meat tuna. He ordered a parfait.
I smiled. He asked if he amused me.

I answered, "Yes, you do, but also you confuse me.

How come you order rich desserts, while I feel I must be sensible? He laughed and said "I'm tasting all that is Possible.

I try to eat the food I need, and do the things I should. But life's so short, my friend, I hate missing out on something good.

This year I realized how old I was. (He grinned) I haven't been this old before."
"So, before I die, I've got to try those things that for years I had ignored.

I haven't smelled all the flowers yet. There are too many trout streams I haven't fished. There's more fudge sundaes to wolf down and kites to be flown overhead.

There are too many golf courses I haven't played. I've not laughed at all the jokes. I've missed a lot of sporting events and potato chips and cokes.

I want to wade again in water and feel ocean spray on my face. I want to sit in a country church once more and thank God for His grace.

I want peanut butter every day spread on my morning toast. I want un-timed long distance calls to the folks I love the most.

I haven't cried at all the movies yet, or walked in the morning rain. I need to feel wind on my face. I want to be in love again.

So, if I choose to have dessert, instead of having dinner, then should I die before night fall, I'd say I died a winner, because I missed out on nothing. I filled my heart's desire. I had that final chocolate mousse before my life expired.."

With that, I called the waitress over.. "I've changed my mind, " I said. "I want what he is having, only add some more whipped cream!"

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Peace to your household...

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

This is just wonderful. It speaks so much of Crabby's heart & character as does his blog. I have wanted 2 respond 2 his "bride's" Mensa comment, but thought, no, surely she is just joking as he seems 2 always speak so lovingly of her. Having 2 watch my dear husband's health decline, I know even 2 more yrs will be a gift. We married in '65, I assume they in '66, but 100yrs would not be long enuf. We ck his blog daily 2 as he is such a strong voice 4 we conservatives and so smart. He truly inspires us 2 not give up on this great country. We enjoy u both as u bring both fun & faith 2 ur followers. We have reread the Mensa blog many times & laugh each time. You both remind us of the values instilled in our generation by parents, teachers & those wise men (like Crabby)& women (like yourself) we were blessed to know.

Anonymous in East Texas still

crabby old man said...

INSPIRED IS THE ONE THAT'S CLEVER & SMART, A REAL LADY, FOR ME I'M SORT OF ROUGH AROUND THE EDGES. JUST A OLD N.E.TX. REDNECK. GOD IS GREAT,BEER IS GOOD & NOV.O8 PROVED PEOPLE ARE CRAZY